Since my last post, from the summer, I went on a hiatus. There were a lot of changes that happened in 2015. I moved back to Vermont, I changed careers.....and I got divorced. I know on social media that my marriage looked cute on the outside, but only my close friends knew what I was going through. There were lies, infidelity, and emotional abuse, just to name a few issues . Marriage isn't easy,but at some point you have to ask yourself: is this healthy? A pivotal
moment occurred, and I said enough was enough. The frustrating part was that she left in a blink of an eye to another state, and left me with all the bills, promising to help until the divorce as final, but never helped. That didn't really surprise me.
As I was going through all the emotional ups and downs with Jes, my friend Mary, who I have known for a few years, was going through a breakup also.We bonded over food and movies, and our friendship caught on fire. I never realized how much you could have in common with one person. I have been traumatized from my last relationship, and she has been there for me every step of the way. Our relationship is amazing, so much love and respect. Of course we are trying to take it as slow as possible, since we both came out of awful relationships,but have you ever been with someone where you thought : Why couldn't we have met sooner?